Sorry to disappoint but that’s not what this story is about. You probably think I’m about to share some hot erotic story with you based on the title of this page. But I ended up falling in love with a guy from my gym and I’m starting to question my sexual orientation. But you don't have to give up hope of a happy relationship with another man.I’ve been attracted to women my entire life and have had zero physical attraction to dudes. It's good to be braced for that and develop a healthy mindset about rejection. It is, unfortunately, true that it's harder to find cis gay and bi men who are interested in trans men, and even harder for trans men who have not yet medically transitioned or don't plan to medically transition.
"Not really a guy" is internalized transphobia and it's probably good to work on that for your own mental health. Trans men are men, and are therefore allowed to identify as gay men, bisexual men, mlm, or any other descriptor of sexuality that seems accurate. Some will be transphobic about it, unfortunately, and act like they're an authority on all gay men, but you don't have to treat them as an authority on anything other than their own preferences. Some will be interested in trans men, some will be very much "It depends on the stage of their transition", and some won't be interested. Always seek the advice of your qualified health care provider regarding any medical questions. This information is not intended nor recommended as a substitute for medical advice. We only provide general information about medical transition, which may be misleading for your individual circumstances. The members of this subreddit do not act as medical professionals. Check here for a history list of recurring threads sorted by new. Selfies, Selfie-similar pictures, and vocal range images may only be posted in the appropriate dedicated, recurring threads. Some highlights: mark NSFW items as NSFW, do not post illegal content, do not create a new account to avoid a ban. If you edit content in a significant way, specify where you edited it. Users fundraising may post in our monthly Fundraiser thread.įlair your posts Do not use the flairs "ModPost" or "Recurring" as they are reserved. Users selling items or relevant need at reasonable prices or users soliciting free/lost cost items may post in our monthly Buy/Sell/Trade/Giveaway thread. We also are currently not accepting any research requests. Exercise caution when sharing personal information - this is a public subreddit.īusiness advertisements are prohibited. Trolling includes posts or comments meant to elicit controversy or drama.ĭo not post information or photos of another person without their permission. No trolling and no reposting of trolling and/or transphobic content. This includes personal and general judgments about weight, surgeries, and appearance. Among other things, this includes differences of identity, experiences of having or not having gender dysphoria, experiences of transition, and the choice to be out or stealth. If you criticize, make it constructive criticism. Absolutely no personal attacks, insults, or threats. FILTERING LINKSīe polite and practice mutual respect. It contains advice on questioning, coming out, passing, testosterone, surgery, legal proceedings and more and contains various other resources and items of interest.Īnother good place to look for a wealth of information is the ftm LiveJournal community.
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